Fetish varies from individual to individual. Anything that turns a person on is categorized as Fetish. It belongs to either of the three categories, Media, Form and Animate.
Anything that triggers a turn-on can be termed as Fetish. There is no fixed item that qualifies as Fetish. From food to clothing, or rubber to latex, anything can turn a person on. Mainly the fetish falls into 3 categories, media, form and animate. Here is what falls in each category. In the first category, a particular item leads to a turn on. It could be anything from rubber, leather or silk. With form, it mainly refers to the shape of the object that leads to the high. It could be anything from a women’s Lingerie to Stilettoes, the list is endless. Lastly one of the arousing sourcing could be the body parts. On the other hand, body parts like feet, hair, buttocks or breast are called “animate” fetishes. Although, western society has accepted Fetish as a norm, India still considers it a Taboo. Most of the time it is not a topic of open discussion.
“GENERALLY, it’s seen that a fetish is accompanied with certain feelings of guilt or shame. Try and seek other people who share the same sexual desires and practice it.”
Sex Expert Dev Karan shares his views
Fetish and Its Kinds
Different individuals have different likings regarding Fetish and its kinds. Given below are some of the items can be great turn-ons.
Body Piercing and Tattoo
If you happen to ask a teenager about Fetish and its kinds, Tattoos and Body piercings figure in the list for sure. For some it could be the region while for others anywhere is fine. From Naval to Tongues or Skin to Eyebrows, the list goes on.
However, before anyone goes for piercing or Tattoos, it is advisable to reach out to an experienced professional who uses sterilized equipment and dyes. Additionally, Dr Bhosle has a very important advice for those keen to get Tattoos or piercings on their body.
“One should be very careful as to where he has got the piercing done from. The area should be free from any kind of infection and kept clean. One should also try to sterilize the ornament they are wearing”.
Dr Rajan Bhosle’s caution
Latex and Leather
It is a proven fact that Men desire Latex fetish. Leather or Latex, it is a major turn-on when it comes to arousing a male Libido. There are many men who have testified being turned on by Latex and Leather. Not only does it give them pleasure, but many have admitted being innovative as well. Men love material. Anything tight or shimmery is sure to turn a man on. However, there is one important thing to watch out for while using latex. Hygiene is important and often allergies develop with stockings. The same is true for Latex too. Most often Fetishes are related to something soft or palpable.
Sex Worker
Imagination of paid sex is a desire of many. And the reason is fairly simple, as a thought of an adulterated sex yields an unbelievable high. There are many individuals who have admitted to imagined in bed with a sex worker while being in bed with their own spouses. Some have even openly expressed of the fact that such fantasies have enabled them to heighten their pleasure. And the simple reason why it is so exciting for them, it just adds new variations in the form of positions as compared to the stale positions.
Display
Many couples have openly confessed of being turned on either by pornography or watching others in the act. another couple in the act. Many have admitted watching P*ORN. In the west there are some people who even tape their sessions to take pleasure watching later. Most of the adults have admitted to the fact that watching erotic content increases their libido.
Body Parts
It might be surprising, but many individuals have a fetish for body parts. They might consider a hand, nail, lips as sexual arousing objects. Many have admitted being hurt by nails a turn on for them. Journalist Ishita Mehra explains her experience when she scratches his back with her nails.
“My boyfriend loves it when I run my long nails on his back, and he says that it arouses him”.
Ishita explains her husband considers hurting as a turn on.
According to research done in Columbia University, Feet and Shoes are by far the biggest turn-ons. Well body parts in good shape could be a turn on. There are poems written about Eyes, Lips and even skin colour. Overall, Human Fantasies are endless and are all a result of a person’s mind. And there is no limit to a human psyche.
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